How to Influence Using Storytelling

January 8, 2008 by admin  
Filed under Negotiation, Persuasion, Sales

(16406) Dave Lakhani says:

Everyone loves hearing a good story. Stories slide past our logical barriers and engage our emotions. Most people are trained from early childhood to enjoy a great story. To become more persuasive, improve and enhance your story-telling skills and abilities.

To tell a great and persuasive story:

  • Know your story inside and out, and think about it in advance
  • Start with a “grab-me-by-the-ears” statement
  • Lay the groundwork by providing some background
  • Engage the listener’s emotion, not just their logic
  • Add some extra layers of proof for your suggestions
  • Answer the questions they’re most likely to have
  • Give enough information so the listener can draw a conclusion
  • Get some feedback from the listener
  • Storytelling is a performance art that must be practiced to be improved. Polish your delivery mechanisms by telling stories frequently. Write the same way — by telling a good story.

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